Initiating a date
You met IRL: Hey, it was great meeting you last night. I would love to meet up some time and [get a drink/dinner/coffee/tea or any activity you want to invite them to] if you're interested.
You met/matched online: It seems like we might have a lot in common. Want to meet up for [a drink/dinner/coffee/tea] to see?
You met through mutuals: So cool to meet another one of [mutual friend's name]'s awesome friends! Let me know if you ever want to hang one-on-one sometime.
Telling someone you don't want to see them again
After the first date: Thank you so much for the other night. I had a good time, but I don't think we're a good match romantically. I really hope you find your person!
After a bunch of dates: It has been great getting to know you these past [weeks, months]. I've given it a lot of though and I don't see us working long-term which is really what I'm looking for.
Asking for what you want sexually
When the other person doesn't do the thing you like:
- You know what I'd really like? I really like [position, technique, sensation]. Is that something you'd want to do?
- Let's try [position, technique, sensation] sometime if you're up for it.
- Are you open to [position, technique, sensation]?
When the other person does something you don't like: That doesn't work for me. Here [guide hand, body part etc.], this does.